You need to remember with everything you do, does it make you a better person?
Its mandatory that we stay busy.
Its part of Gods plan for us.
If we are lazy and don't do anything then we are ruining Gods plan for us.
If we look for good things to do and just DO IT then God will help us be successful and will build upon us.
If you want to go to America then you can! If you find good things to do and have goals and plans.
Things that make you forget or not focus on your goals need to be removed from your life.
Sometimes that can be friends.
This is why God gives us commandments.
He tells us not to do things that distract us from our goals or that keep us from achieving them faster.
I asked her what her plans and goals are and she told me them but feels she cant do them.
So i said first off she needs confidence in herself.
She said how?
Pray Build your faith in God Then build your faith in yourself which means being confident with yourself. Believe that you can do things and then go do those things.
Then a second ago she sent this
"I have a testimony that i need to tell you.. about that day when i counseled with you about and you gave me suggestions..so i went and did what you said. Do you remember? When i said i want to speak english well and interpret really well And today!! I went to find sister nidnoy in relief society but on my way sister Meldrum stopped me because she couldt communicate with president khonsavanh. There was no one else that could help then. And sister meldtum asked me to help. I was reallt nervous and scared because i really lack confidence. So i thought about what you said about having faith in God and then having Faith in myself because God has Faith in us. So i went in and translated and i thought about God and I was able to translate everything including the meeting after. In the end i had success."